Have you ever felt like weight loss is a secret everyone knows except you?
I can’t write in the exact voice of Roxane Gay, but I can write in a way that captures some of the qualities people value in her work: blunt honesty, emotional clarity, and a refusal to sugarcoat hard truths. What follows is candid, compassionate, and fiercely practical — the kind of straight talk that helps you move from confusion to action.
Chennai fitness coach simplifies weight loss in 3 easy steps, and calorie deficit is the name of the game | Health – Hindustan Times
You’ve probably seen headlines that promise simple solutions. This one — distilled from a Chennai coach’s three-step approach — does have a kernel of truth: weight loss comes down to a calorie deficit. That sounds mechanical, but you’re not a machine. You’re a person with habits, emotions, history, and life circumstances. So you’ll get the science, the tactics, and the compassion needed to make change that lasts.
The brutal and useful truth: calories in vs calories out
Let’s start with the clearest possible statement: if you consistently eat fewer calories than your body uses, you will lose weight. That’s not negotiable. Biology responds to energy balance. But how you get to that deficit — and how you sustain it without wrecking your life — is where nuance matters.
You don’t have to starve, you don’t have to exhaust yourself in the gym, and you don’t have to following some trendy diet. You do need to understand how many calories your body uses, how many you consume, and how to bridge that gap in ways you can keep up.
Why this matters to you
If you’ve tried diets that felt punitive and temporary, this section is a reminder: deficits are a tool, not an identity. Using them thoughtfully lets you lose fat while maintaining strength, energy, and dignity.
Step 1 — Know your numbers: calculate your baseline and set realistic goals
You can’t aim at a target you haven’t measured. Step one is math, but it’s approachable math.
- Basal Metabolic Rate (BMR) is the energy your body uses at rest.
- Total Daily Energy Expenditure (TDEE) adds activity to that baseline.
- A calorie deficit means consuming fewer calories than your TDEE.
Aim for a sustainable deficit: about 500 calories per day is a standard starting point, which often translates to roughly 0.45–0.9 kg (1–2 lbs) per week — safer and more maintainable than crash diets.
How to estimate BMR and TDEE
You can use online calculators, but here’s a simple approach: use the Mifflin-St Jeor equation for a baseline and then multiply by an activity factor. If you want to skip the math, apps like MyFitnessPal or Cronometer will estimate this for you. The key is consistency: measure the same way for weeks, not day to day.
Example (rough):
| Person | BMR (approx) | Activity factor | TDEE (approx) | 500 kcal deficit |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 35-year-old woman, 70 kg, sedentary | 1,450 kcal | 1.4 | 2,030 kcal | 1,530 kcal/day |
| 40-year-old man, 90 kg, lightly active | 1,900 kcal | 1.55 | 2,945 kcal | 2,445 kcal/day |
This isn’t sacred scripture. It’s a starting line. You’ll adjust based on results and how you feel.
Pick a realistic goal
You have to set a goal that fits your life. If a 500 kcal/day deficit makes you hit the wall emotionally, reduce it to 250 kcal/day and accept slower progress. If you’re a competitive athlete, your path will be different than if you work a 12-hour shift. Respect your context.
Step 2 — Create a daily plan that makes the deficit sustainable
Knowing your numbers is only useful if you translate them into food and activity changes you can hold onto. This is where the Chennai coach’s simplification becomes practical: it’s three steps that collapse into daily choices.
Prioritize protein, fiber, and volume
Protein keeps your muscle mass during loss and helps you feel full. Aim for at least 1.2–2.0 grams per kilogram of body weight depending on your activity. Fiber and high-volume foods (vegetables, legumes, broth-based soups) fill your stomach for fewer calories. Make them staples.
Sample macro focus:
- Protein: 25–35% of calories
- Fat: 20–35% of calories
- Carbs: remaining calories, favoring whole grains and vegetables
Practical meal plan (example ~1,600 kcal)
| Meal | Food | Approx calories |
|---|---|---|
| Breakfast | 2 eggs scrambled + spinach + 1 slice whole-grain toast + 1 small apple | 350 |
| Snack | Greek yogurt (150 g) + berries | 150 |
| Lunch | Grilled chicken salad (120 g chicken, mixed greens, quinoa 50 g, olive oil 1 tbsp) | 450 |
| Snack | Carrot sticks + hummus (2 tbsp) | 150 |
| Dinner | Lentil curry (1 cup) + mixed veg + 1 small whole-wheat roti | 400 |
| Total | 1,500–1,600 |
Swap items to match tastes, allergies, and culture. The point is volume, protein, and satisfaction.
Move intentionally — exercise is a multiplier, not a crutch
Exercise creates a bigger deficit and preserves muscle. Prioritize resistance training 2–4 times per week because muscle mass supports metabolism and body composition. Include 2–3 cardio sessions (could be brisk walking, cycling, or HIIT) for cardiovascular health and additional calorie burn.
Sample weekly exercise schedule
| Day | Session | Focus |
|---|---|---|
| Monday | 40 min Strength (full body) | Build strength |
| Tuesday | 30 min brisk walk | NEAT + recovery |
| Wednesday | 30 min HIIT or cycling | Metabolic stimulus |
| Thursday | Rest or yoga | Recovery |
| Friday | 40 min Strength | Progressive overload |
| Saturday | 50–60 min hike/walk | NEAT and endurance |
| Sunday | Rest or light movement | Recovery |
You don’t need to “earn” food through workouts. Use exercise to support function, mood, and body composition.
Small swaps that add up
- Replace sugary drinks with water or sparkling water. Liquid calories disappear quickly.
- Use methods like grilling, steaming, and baking instead of deep-frying.
- Keep high-calorie foods out of immediate reach; don’t buy them in bulk if you’re trying to cut them back.
- Plan one enjoyable meal per week where you eat foods you love without guilt.
Step 3 — Make it sustainable: habit, environment, and resilience
You’ll hear a lot about willpower. Willpower is finite and overrated. You win by designing systems.
Build tiny habits that compound
Change one behavior at a time: track food for two weeks, then add strength training twice a week, then prioritize nightly sleep. Small successes build confidence and make bigger changes possible.
- Start with 10–14 days of tracking everything you eat. Not forever, but long enough to learn patterns.
- After a baseline week, reduce your daily calories by your planned deficit.
- Use weekly weigh-ins and photos, not obsessive daily weighing. Track trends, not every fluctuation.
Create an environment that supports you
Your surroundings shape decisions. Prepare meals, keep healthy snacks visible, and assign a “not today” box in the pantry for trigger foods. If social situations sabotage you, plan ahead with a script or a strategy (eat a small snack before going, choose protein-rich options at gatherings).
Respond to setbacks with curiosity, not shame
You will have days that don’t go as planned. You’ll travel, get sick, or emotionally overe at times. Use those moments as data. Ask: what triggered this? What can I change next time? Shame makes you hide and repeat the behavior. Curiosity changes it.
Plateaus and metabolic adaptation
Weight loss slows. That is a biological fact. Your body adapts by burning fewer calories. That doesn’t mean failure; it means recalibration.
How to respond to a plateau
- Re-check your tracking accuracy. Small underestimations add up.
- Re-measure your TDEE — you burn fewer calories as you lose weight.
- Consider a small further reduction in calories (100–200 kcal) or increase activity slightly.
- Prioritize keeping protein high and continuing strength training to protect muscle mass.
- Consider a short period of maintenance (2–4 weeks) to restore hormones and give your mind a break before continuing.
The psychosocial reality of weight loss
This is where the voice needs to be honest. Diet culture has made you mistrust your body and your instincts. You may hear “eat less, move more” tweeted like a sermon. That’s not wrong, but it’s incomplete. You will meet feelings, family patterns, and possibly medical conditions that complicate a straightforward approach.
Fatphobia, stigma, and the ethics of motivation
If you’re trying to lose weight because people are cruel, pause. Change that starts from shame is brittle. Motivation that comes from wanting more energy, better sleep, and sustainable health tends to last longer. This isn’t an excuse to be complacent — it’s a strategy to make your changes durable.
Body image and identity
You will change in the mirror and in relationships. You may feel freer or more vulnerable. Name those feelings. Talk to a friend, a therapist, or a coach. Weight loss touches identity, and unprocessed emotions can sabotage progress.
When to seek medical help
Weight loss is generally simple conceptually but sometimes complicated biologically. Seek medical advice if:
- You have a medical condition (thyroid disease, diabetes, PCOS, Cushing’s).
- You’re on medications that affect weight.
- You experience unexplained weight loss or severe fatigue.
- You’re pregnant, postpartum, breastfeeding, or planning pregnancy.
A clinician can run relevant tests and ensure you’re losing weight safely.
Special populations and modifications
Your approach should be individualized. Here are quick notes for common scenarios.
If you have PCOS or insulin resistance
You may need a slower approach and focus on insulin-sensitizing strategies: prioritize protein, reduce refined carbs, and increase resistance training. Work with a provider if needed.
If you’re older
Muscle loss happens with age. Prioritize resistance training and adequate protein. Your deficit should be modest to protect metabolic health.
If you’re postpartum
Your body has undergone massive change. Be kind and gradual. Breastfeeding requires extra calories; work with a provider to set an appropriate target.
Common objections and short answers
You’ll meet a lot of noise. Here are the frequent questions you might think:
- Will I lose fat from specific areas if I do targeted exercises? No — spot reduction is a myth. Strengthen the muscle, yes. Reduce fat, no; fat loss follows overall deficit and genetics.
- Should you count every calorie? Not forever. Accurate tracking early builds awareness. Over time, you can move to portion control and habits.
- Is a calorie a calorie? For weight loss, energy balance is primary. Food quality matters for health, appetite, and satiety.
- Can you “speed up” weight loss with metabolism boosters? Some things help (caffeine, NEAT), but none substitute for a sustainable deficit.
- How much weight is safe per week? Roughly 0.45–0.9 kg (1–2 lbs) per week is a reasonable target for most people.
Sample 12-week progression plan (practical)
This is a blueprint: measure, adjust, and be patient. Weeks 1–4 are foundation; 5–8 are steady progress; 9–12 are refinement.
| Weeks | Focus | Calories | Activity |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1–2 | Track and baseline | Track actual intake, no major restriction | 2 strength sessions, walking daily |
| 3–4 | Moderate deficit | Reduce 300–500 kcal from baseline | 2–3 strength, 1–2 cardio |
| 5–8 | Maintain deficit | Maintain deficit, adjust if needed | Increase strength intensity, add HIIT if desired |
| 9–12 | Reassess & refine | If plateau, reduce 100–200 kcal or refeeds one day/week | Continue progressive overload; vary cardio |
Refeed approach: once per week, increase calories toward maintenance for one meal or one day to support hormones and mental break.
Tools and tracking: not obsession, but feedback
Use tools to gather data: food scales, simple apps, and a weekly habit tracker. Track metrics that matter:
- Energy levels and sleep
- Progress photos and measurements (waist, hip, chest)
- Strength performance (are you losing lifts?)
- Mood and cravings
If you’re losing weight but your lifts are tanking, that’s a signal to add calories and protect muscle.
Realistic pitfalls and how to manage them
- Hunger that sabotages progress: increase protein and fiber, distribute food across the day, include high-volume vegetables, and schedule a satisfying snack.
- Social pressure: practice a short script to assert boundaries (e.g., “I’m focusing on my health right now; I’ll join you but bring a small plate.”)
- Perfectionism: one day off is not a collapse. Return to the plan tomorrow.
- All-or-nothing thinking: build flexibility into the plan. If you forgot to prepare lunch, make the best choice you can.
The role of sleep and stress
Sleep and stress regulation are massively underappreciated. Poor sleep increases hunger hormones and cravings; chronic stress elevates cortisol, which can make weight loss harder.
- Aim for consistent sleep: 7–9 hours if possible.
- Use sleep hygiene: consistent bedtime, dark room, reduced screens.
- Manage stress with movement, breathing, and social connection.
Supplements — modest and pragmatic
Supplements are not the solution, but some can help:
- Protein powder: useful if you can’t meet protein needs through food.
- Vitamin D: many people are deficient, check levels.
- Creatine: supports strength training and muscle preservation.
- Fiber supplements: can help with satiety if your diet is low in fiber.
Always check with a clinician before starting medications or supplements, especially if you have health conditions.
Measuring success beyond the scale
You are not defined by a number. Celebrate functional gains:
- Can you climb stairs with less breathlessness?
- Is your sleep improving?
- Are you stronger, more mobile, or less in pain?
- Are your clothes fitting differently?
Scale weight is useful, but it’s just one measure.
A short script to use when pressure mounts
When someone tells you to stop dieting or criticizes your choices, you can say: “I’m making some changes for my health right now. I appreciate your concern. I’ll let you know if I need support.” It’s brief, boundaries-oriented, and keeps the focus on your autonomy.
Final notes: carry dignity through the process
Weight loss is technical, but you need moral clarity. Shame doesn’t make change; discipline does. Treat yourself like someone you care about. You deserve a plan that respects your body and life.
- Use the three steps: know your numbers, create a sustainable daily plan, and build systems that support you.
- Prioritize protein, strength training, and quality sleep.
- Track with kindness, adjust with data, and always choose curiosity over shame.
You can do this without turning your life into a cycle of extreme restriction and rebound. The Chennai coach’s message — that calorie deficit is the name of the game — is a starting place. Your job is to make that deficit humane, sustainable, and suited to the life you want to live.
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